If you were brought up in a Christian tradition, Catholic especially, then you have likely been taught some pretty scary things about sex. Premarital sex is a sin. Gay sex is a sin. Masturbation is a sin. Even sex in the bond of holy wedlock can be considered a sin if any type of contraception is used. In this last case of contraception, some Christians may take issue. However, a quick glance at Genesis, chapter 38, should be convincing enough that God considers even the act of “pulling out” a grave insult to His law.
Then Judah said to Onan, “Lie with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to produce offspring for your brother.” But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing offspring for his brother. What he did was wicked in the LORD’s sight; so he put him to death also.
-Gen. 38:8-10
This passage, among many other intolerant proclamations of the Bible, are interpreted by fundamentalist Christians to rationalize condemning all forms of contraception, denying emergency contraception to rape victims, denying civil rights to gay couples, attempting to ban pornography, opposing the development of vaccines for STDs--and the list goes on.
The claim that fundamentalists and Catholics make, that God’s “natural laws” govern sex (only acceptable when procreation is the goal) is contrary to a lot of observable evidence that we have. For instance, humans have a surprisingly low fertility rate. Even healthy, young, sexually active newlyweds only have about a 28 per cent chance of conception per menstrual cycle. A cow can be artificially inseminated one time and have a 75 per cent chance of conceiving. It would seem that God had a little trouble “designing” humans’ reproductive organs if 28 per cent chance is all that He could muster for their only purpose! Notice also that human females do not go into heat like other mammals do. If you look at a female chimpanzee, her genitals become bright pink and swollen to show that she is ready to conceive. Human females do not advertise in this way. If that is her only purpose for her reproductive organs, why aren’t they designed better?
Not even mentioned yet are all the clear and obvious purposes that we use sex for: Pair bonding (or more than a pair), stress release, social currency, pleasure. There have been many scientific studies pursued showing the many health benefits of sex and masturbation. To the contrary, however, you will find many believers saying such things as this quote from catholic.com:
But sexual pleasure within marriage becomes unnatural, and even harmful to the spouses, when it is used in a way that deliberately excludes the basic purpose of sex, which is procreation.
I would like to ask some questions that devout Catholics may be able to help me with:
Is it as unnatural for animals to have homosexual sex as it is for humans? Should God smite these indulgent chimps and bunnies?
How about the “natural” use of my nose: Should I really be resting my glasses on it?
Lastly, God in his wisdom has provided man with natural forks--his fingers. Therefore, is it an insult to Him to substitute artificial metallic forks for them when eating? (This last question is not meant to be absurd.) The Catholic Church held this opinion of forks in the 1600s. Look it up….or just click here.
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